Meet Alice

Hello Jade’s audience!

 

It feels so strange writing for another blog, I feel like I’m trying to impress my mum or something. Anyway, hi! I’m Alice and I’m a bit of a loser here on the internet. I also (badly) run another blog and I also post videos on youtube. My plan in life is to infect everybody with my weirdness.

 

I’m not entirely sure how I should be introducing myself and I’m very tempted to just steal Jade’s original intro and hope nobody notices. I’d like to think that I’ll be writing regularly but anybody who knows me will know that I will need prodding and poking around to be reminded of that, so if you’d like that job you will need ten years of experience in the field of prodding and poking and I expect your CV on my desk first thing monday morning.

 

Nice to meet you!

 

New people!

So it taken time but I've found two willing victims who will be posting once a month.

These lucky victims are my two good friends. 

Miss Alice Taylor. She can also be found on YouTube telling you her crazy stories and doing extremely strange things. 

Alice is a one of a kind with the craziest of thoughts and opinions and is an excellent addition to the only way we know how. She is defiantly living life to the fullest and is enjoying discovering where she is going with life and where she will end up..hopefully you will enjoy her journey. And find it as amusing as I do :) 

My second addition to the blog is Mr Michael Rawe who once again is on YouTube, he has very strong thoughts and opinions and once again is a very funny man..unlike Alice he has no idea what he wants to do or how he wants to get there. But is still willing to give life a try.

And nine times out of ten you will find him pulling a really stupid face. His thoughts and feeling are always put across In a light hearted and funny way and he has a vlog which further shows his crazy side. But once again is one hell of an addition to the blog.

Useful links: 

Alice: http://m.youtube.com/user/aliceetaylorr

Michael: http://m.youtube.com/user/MrRAWEEE

So I hope you guys enjoy what they have to say and how they say it :) watch out for their first posts!! 

Peace x 

To be or not to be?

So I thought I had mad a choice..go to university and get a degree...it would appear my mind is still not set. 

Seeing as this is one of the hardest decisions of my life I need to have a definite answer and the truth I have no idea what I want to do. If I go to uni I need to have a definite idea of what I want to do. Truth is I have no idea. 

In one side of my mind I have the fact that I'm letting my childhood dream go. And knowing that I have wanted to do this since I was 12, on the other hand I would have to build my own business and honestly I have no idea how to do that. But on the other hand I think going to university will be good for me. 

I'm in a catch 22, how do I know my choice and university will be right for me, and then I have wasted the money I have. But the again how do I know I'm any good at my childhood dream. And that won't be a waste of money. 

So I'm stuck, everyone says go with your heart do something that will make you happy but how do I know what will I'm 18, all I want to do right now is live life to the fullest while I can. The big wide world scares me and I know that their will always be obstacles in my way. 

How do I know I will be strong enough to not just run away. To start and then give up! I need help I need someone to tell me what to do where to go and yet it's my life and it has to be my choice. 

How did you choose your career? What made it easier and what made it harder? How did you know what was to be. Where you wanted to go at such a young age. Did you wing it and hope for the best? So many unanswered questions. And I have to find a way to figure these all out.

So...what is to be and what is not to be? 

Peace x 

We need you!

Okay so I'm trying to make this blog as interactive as possible. 

I need your help! I need your opinions and your ideas. If you think in right of wrong. If you think there are certain things I should discuss that I'm not!

Come on get involved. You can even write a piece send it to me and I will publish it for you :) with your own tag :)

So get involved! 

Here is my twitter if you want to get involved @jadexoxoxd

Peace x 

Solutions and answers

These are two things someone of my age kills for solutions and answers and sometimes you fight them. I realised that you shouldn't. 

Stress can ruin a good day or even a long period of time, it can ruin relationships and also work. Two things that sort stress is solutions and answers. 

You have to learn to deal with what your fighting. Be it in my case growing up and trying to run away from it. 

I discovered that running away from things that frighten you is all well and good till they catch up with you and then bite you on the ass. Solutions and answers are not always easy to find. And sometimes take a lot of hard work a will power to get to them. 

You must prevail and stay strong when it seems like all things are crashing and burning around you. 

Here are some tips just in case you need a helping hand; 

1) Talk to someone. 

You have loads of people around you who care and love you they will always be able to help :) 

2)Face the situation.

Easier said then done I know. But sometimes you don't have to go at it alone. 

3) Ask for help. 

If you have found answers but many of them don't be scared to ask someone for help like a tutor or someone who has has to make the choices you now face. 

4) Stay strong. 

Always remember your strong. And don't let others tell you any thing other than that :) 

Hopefully these have helped. If you have any solutions to finding answers and solutions. Comment below and help others out :) 

Peace x 

Pressure.

I don't know abut you but I have recently felt a lot of pressure to mature and grow up. And to start thinking of my future when in all honesty I have no idea what I want to do or how I'm going to get there. 

And sometimes I feel a little like this 

I feel like my head should explode...things that people of my age are thinking about or have thought about are things like; university, work, relationships and so many other things. 

And then I discovered the art of relaxing, yes all these things are crucial to my life. But I need to take one thing at a time. 

So here are some ideas to relax and get things sorted without giving yourself a head ache.

1) Take time for yourself

Yes you have a lot to do but it doesn't mean that you can't spend 30mins watching tv or seeing your friends. A lot if the time your friends will be willing to give you a helping hand or give you some advice. 

2) One thing at a time. 

Your human you can only do so much. Plan one thing at a time. If your finding hard to deal with everything put them in to order of most important and go from there. Don't stress yourself. 

3) Never do what you don't want to. 

It's all well and good doing things to help others but if your plate is full stop stacking other things on top. Again your human. You can say no. If you don't want to go to uni say no. If you don't want to go out on Friday night and you need to sleep say so. The people who care will understand. 

4) Enjoy life. 

That doesn't need to be explained, your young enjoy yourself. But remember you do have responsibilities too so remember all actions have consequences. 

So there are few things that have helped me cope. If you have some techniques you use let me know. Ill put them in another blog :) 

Peace x 

About me and the start.

So I guess I should tell you who I am. 

I had a previous blog which is more personal this is general, not only will I be writing this but I am hoping my friends will join in too :) 

My name is Jade I'm 18 and I'm really bad at becoming an adult. If anything I'm fighting it as much as I can. 

I enjoy life. I have a great friends and an awesome family. But I always wondered why no one helped us out. Yes we have our parents who are doing amazing things and deserve to be praised from the ground up. But honestly I have no idea what I'm doing so I plan to share all my trials and errors and hopefully my successes with you as well. And maybe a rant every now and then...if your lucky. 

I will show you and share with you  everything I feel is important for you to know and it won't all be serious. 

Don't panic. We will do it together. 

Peace x